Friday Five: they say it’s your birthday!

Friday fun from RevGalBlogPals…

1) Are you a cake or pie person? What type do you savor on your big day?

If someone is making me a cake I usually ask for a Boston cream pie.  Most of the time nowadays I don’t have one at all.  I dropped some very broad hints at Mike for awhile, but they sailed right over his head.  Last year my birthday was the day I was scheduled to cook for our summer lunch program, so I went up to the grocery store and ordered a decorated cake, and shared it with the kids.  If I want a birthday cake, apparently, I have to get it for myself.

2) Growing up, did you have a favorite “birthday meal?” How about now?

We always got to pick what we had for birthday dinner, even down to the cake.  I didn’t always pick the same thing.  One year I asked for steak and spaghetti.  A lot of years I wanted Swedish chicken breasts, which involve bacon and sour cream.

3) What birthday traditions or rituals from younger days have followed you into adulthood?

I don’t really know of any.  My family all live far enough away that we don’t get together for birthday dinners very often.  When we do, one of our rituals is that when the cake comes out and everybody sings the birthday song, we try to sing as off-key as possible.  We’ve also always passed the cards around the table so everyone can read each one, and usually we go for the funny rather than sentimental cards.

(Interesting story… My great-grandma Whitaker was blind, and I understood what that meant, apparently, very young.  At birthday dinners I would oftentimes sit beside her; and my parents discovered that I knew how to read because I was reading the cards to Grandma Whitaker as they were passed around the table.  I was not quite three.)

4) What’s the most memorable gift or celebration you ever received for your birthday?

Well, one year I had to do a funeral on my birthday.  That was memorable, but maybe not in a good way.

My 18th birthday I was in Ireland.  The group I was traveling with had lined up a bus trip for that day to some historical sites, leaving out of Dublin.  But another member of the group forgot her camera and I stayed behind with her to retrieve it, intending to catch the next train to Dublin and meet the rest of the group there before the bus left.  But the train was delayed, so we didn’t get to Dublin until well after the bus was to leave.  We didn’t even look for them–and later we found out that the whole group waited for us, and were sitting on the bus trying to get our attention so we could join them.  We never saw them, so we spent the day drifting around the Dublin city center, and then went home.

5) How do you like to celebrate others on their day?

I like to cook for them, if I can.  At the church if someone has their birthday on Sunday we always sing to them.  (That includes me, although I have occasionally threatened to take my vacation that Sunday so they can’t sing.  It’s not entirely sporting since I always sing to them.)

Friday Five: Besides

Weekly challenge from RevGalBlogPals…

1. Besides cookies, muffins, and ice cream, what’s something chocolate chips are good in?

I often use them to make ganache, to frost cakes and for truffles. I also sometimes make s’mores with them in the microwave, when it’s not campfire season.  Actually, sometimes when I just need chocolate and there’s nothing else in the house, a few chocolate chips in a dish will satisfy the craving.

2. Besides official holidays and your birthday, what’s the best day of the year?

I’d say either St. Brigid’s Day (first of February) or the day a couple weeks after that when pitchers and catchers report for spring training. Both those things mean spring is coming, welcome harbingers after a brutal Iowa winter.

3. Besides toilet paper and pantry items, what’s something in your house you make sure never to run out of?

Cat litter.

4. Besides relatives, teachers, and coaches, who gave you the most memorable advice growing up?

I don’t know if it was exactly “advice,” but I remember once when I was in high school calling my pastor up one afternoon to get his opinion for a paper I was writing for my English class. The paper was on a controversial issue and I had chosen capital punishment. So I called the pastor up, and he was in the middle of something and I left a message with the secretary. Then he called me back in maybe five or ten minutes, and took the time to answer my questions and tell me what he thought. He was a busy man and yet he took the time for a fifteen-year-old; and that stuck with me.

5. Besides junk mail, subscriptions, greeting cards, and stuff you ordered online, what’s something great that came in the mail recently?

I have been getting bills from various folks who’ve worked on my kitchen remodel–plumbers, electricians, and so on–which is “great” because it means the kitchen is FINALLY done!

Sermon for Sunday 1-25-2015

January 25, 2015
The Walk
Matthew 5:1-12

Last year at camp, our curriculum focused on how we follow Jesus’ commandment to love one another. But for those of us who were at Camp 17, the theme of our week together was “Happy.”

It seems like every year there is some kind of fad, or popular song, or trend, or something, that becomes part of the culture of the camp. Two years ago the Geico commercial with the camel celebrating “Hump Day” was popular, and so that found its way into a lot of announcements over the course of the week, especially on Wednesday. That was also the year camp staff was introduced with a short video of us all doing the “Harlem Shake.”

But last year Pharrell Williams’ incredibly popular, bouncy, catchy, upbeat song called “Happy” had bounded up the charts, and so we all came into the first day’s first gathering dancing to it, almost like a pep rally. Then, during the dance on the last night, the DJ played an extended dance mix of “Happy,” and we all got out on the floor in a circle and everyone—even those counselors who more often stayed far away from anything that might cause them to dance—took a turn in the center. The song was happy, we were happy, and all was right with the world.

What does it mean to be happy? It tends to be situational, doesn’t it? We’re happy when we’re having fun, when things are going our way, when people like us, when we’re healthy, when our worries and stresses about jobs and money and the like are at a minimum. Take any of those out of the equation, and would we be happy?

We know what happiness is, and I think most of us have a pretty fair idea what it isn’t. So what do we make of Jesus’ statements, which begin the first of five long blocks of teaching from Jesus in Matthew’s Gospels, about the nature of happiness?

Some folks might be tempted to argue that this translation (I read from the Common English Bible) got it wrong—the New Revised Standard Bible, as well as the old King James Version in which some of us may have memorized the Beatitudes, has the word blessed where the Common English and other Bible versions says happy. But actually, the Greek word being translated, makarioi, is the same one that is used in the Greek translation of the Hebrew Bible in places like Psalm 84:4, which says, “Happy are those who live in your house, ever singing your praise.” So it isn’t out of line at all to translate it as happy rather than blessed in the Beatitudes. And maybe since blessed is so familiar and so spiritualized, we’d do better to use happy, because it might help us to realize just how shocking these statements are.

We know what it is to be happy, and I think we have a fair idea what it isn’t. So what do we make of Jesus telling us we’re happy when we are hopeless (in other versions that’s rendered as “poor in spirit,” but one commentary I read this week said we could as easily read it as “Happy are those whose breath comes in sobs,” since the word translated as spirit can also mean breath)? How can we be happy when we’re in the midst of grief—and I’m not talking about the substantial grief we feel when we lose someone we love; Matthew’s original hearers would have been grieving an even greater loss, the destruction of their Temple, for the second time, this time forever.

Happy are those who grieve because an oppressive empire has destroyed the house of their God and with it the entire system of worship and sacrifice that made it possible for them to have a relationship with God?

The other half of that beatitude isn’t all that much better. We’re most familiar with it this way: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” But again, if we go behind this into the Greek, the word translated as comforted can have a slightly different meaning. “Blessed are those whose holy place has been destroyed by an oppressor, for they will be called as a witness when that oppressor is finally brought to justice.” It might be comforting, but it could also be excruciating.

Many years ago, when I lived in the dorms at Wichita State, I woke up just after 3 a.m. because the door to my room was standing open. I had a friend who would occasionally stop by to talk at all hours of the night, so I just reached for my glasses and prepared to see what she wanted. But before I could get them on, a man popped up from where he had been crouched by the bed, and he asked, “Is Jesse here?” I don’t know if it was just the first thing that popped into his mind, or if he was on drugs and not thinking clearly.

My response was to yell out—I won’t tell what I said, because I used some bad words. And then he said, “Jesse’s not here,” and ran out of my room, slamming the door behind him. From there he went two floors up, where another girl woke up when he grabbed her by the leg.

When I collected myself, I called my friend down the hall, who called the RA, who called campus police. A couple days later I was summoned to look through a mugshot book—which was a complete waste of time; I didn’t get a good look at the man because it was dark and I can see nothing without my glasses on. The other girl must have, because a man got arrested, and there was a trial scheduled for late the following summer. I got a summons to come and testify; but the trial was cancelled right before it was set to start. I’m not sure that “happy” or “blessed” would exactly describe how I felt at the prospect of seeing and hearing the voice of the man accused of walking into my dorm room intent on who knows what, even if I was seeing and hearing him in a courtroom where I might have been part of his being convicted and sentenced for what he did.

Jesus continues his unbelievable, outrageous list…

Happy are the humble—or the meek, or the gentle, depending on the translation—because they will inherit the earth? These are the people this world has a tendency to ignore, to trample on, to take advantage of, to bruise and batter until (as in the first Beatitude) their breath comes in sobs. How are they happy, and how can they inherit the earth when their faces have been ground into it?

The last one could be the worst. Happy are those who are harassed (the Greek word means something more like hunted down) because they are righteous—in other words, because they gladly observe all of God’s commandments. You work hard, play by the rules, keep the commandments, care for the poor, love your neighbor as yourself, worship and serve only God; and there are people out there who want to hurt you, who stalk you and chase you to the ends of the earth because of it—and you’re supposed to be happy?

In fact, Jesus says, be full of joy, rejoice, be glad; because this is how the prophets were treated a lot of the time. Yeah, I should be thrilled to be like Jeremiah, who was thrown into a cistern, ridiculed, and put under house arrest; who had his books burned by the king; and who tried repeatedly to resign as God’s prophet but couldn’t because if he didn’t speak God’s word it gave him a major case of heartburn. I think not.

Yet this is Jesus’ recipe for happiness. This is what we get if we walk his Way. What in the world is he talking about?

There’s nothing happy about being a victim, about being crushed and oppressed, about turning the other cheek so often that it’s black and bruised and torn, about doing the best we can and having even our friends misunderstand…is there?

Do you remember where last week’s reading ended? Jesus began his ministry preaching exactly the same sermon John the Baptist had preached: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near.”
Jesus was all about proclaiming the kingdom of heaven, and explaining (in stories, mostly; the kingdom of heaven is not exposed through proposition, but glimpsed through parable) what life is like in that kingdom. It’s not a thing like life here on this earth, where human nature and the reality of sin hold sway. It’s a place where everything is turned upside down, where the last are first, the lost are found, the outcasts are brought in and seated at the head table. When Jesus tells us that the last, the least, the lost, the broken, the sobbing, the persecuted are happy and blessed, it’s because the kingdom of heaven doesn’t work the same way that the kingdoms of earth work.

Does that settle the question?

Well, it doesn’t for me, not completely. I still live on earth, and the kingdom of heaven is a long ways from being fully realized here. Perhaps, though, we who call ourselves followers of Jesus, who seek to walk the path he walked before us, who live in this world as citizens of the kingdom of heaven even though it can’t be found on a map, could set our minds on living out the reasons why Jesus calls these downtrodden and persecuted people blessed: comforting those who mourn, whose breath comes in sobs; showing mercy to those who have turned the other cheek so often that their jaws are broken on both sides; or standing with those who are persecuted and reviled and taken advantage of.

Sermon for Sunday 1-18-2015

January 18, 2015
Was It Really This Easy?
Matthew 4:1-17

Once upon a time, a girl (let’s call her Hannah) coming close to the time of her bat mitzvah began to test the boundaries of what it meant to be a Jew and whether or not she wanted to take up that identity for herself. Hannah was at the age when a lot of kids like to have slumber parties, and since not all her friends were Jewish, there was a fair amount of pepperoni pizza being served. (Pepperoni is not kosher, since it’s made in part from pork; and even if it were made of only beef, the pizza would not be kosher because of the rule about not mixing meat and dairy.) But Hannah, at these gatherings with her friends, tried pepperoni pizza, and found it quite tasty.

So, as she pondered her Jewish identity, she asked her parents, “What is wrong with pepperoni pizza? If God created the earth and everything in it, what could be wrong with enjoying the taste of pepperoni?”

Well, Hannah’s father was a wise man, and he knew better to get himself drawn into an argument with an adolescent or provoke a rebellion by simply saying she could not have pepperoni, end of discussion. Instead, he told her, “You will have to decide.” Then he buttoned his lips and held his breath, as she went to slumber party after slumber party and enjoyed who knows how many slices of pepperoni pizza.

Then, one day, Hannah announced the decision she had reached on this very important matter. “There is nothing wrong with pepperoni pizza,” she said, as her parents’ nervousness was kindled. “God made it, and there is nothing wrong with it. But there is a lot,” she continued, “that is right about learning self-control. So when I smell pepperoni pizza, I will remember that I am a Jew and I know how to control myself.” (story from the Narrative Lectionary commentary for this week at http://www.workingpreacher.org, embellished a little bit for the sake of storytelling)

It can’t have been an easy decision for her, given that she was at an age when the approval of her peers would have become very important. She’d be going to these gatherings with her friends, and would stick out like a sore thumb because she would not be able to eat what they were eating. I can imagine her wondering, “Do I really want to be a Jew if it means my friends might make fun of me, or stop inviting me to their slumber parties because I can’t eat pepperoni pizza, which everybody likes?”

If you have ever been twelve or thirteen years old, you know how important this question can be. And it’s not a question that we outgrow when we become adults. What would Hannah have to deal with as she grew up, graduated college, moved into the business world, started a family?

“Some of the work I am being asked to do violates my understanding of God’s commandments. If I say no, I could lose my job; and in this economy jobs aren’t all that easy to come by.”

“My kids’ sports program schedules games on the Sabbath, at the same time as their religious education classes at the synagogue. How can we keep the Sabbath and still have our kids in the sports they love?”

Lest you think such questions are only the domain of an observant Jewish person like Hannah, can you imagine yourself struggling with similar temptations? Maybe we wouldn’t have to question pepperoni pizza, but there are other things…Perhaps Hannah the young Christian girl might struggle with whether or not to join in when she’s at a slumber party and the other kids decide to see what’s in the parents’ liquor cabinet. Or Hannah the new employee discovers some very unchristian practices that are commonplace in her company. Or Hannah the mom has to figure out what to do when the kids have sports practices scheduled on Sundays or on youth group night.

Temptation is not just a Jewish, or a Christian, matter. It’s something all humans face, regardless of their religious preference or even if they have no religion at all. Is this activity in keeping with who I am, who I want to be? Will I be able to live with myself if I do this?

Temptation is a human thing. We all face it, at one time or another. And it isn’t necessarily a trivial or humorous matter, as you’d gather from the world around us in which phrases like “I can withstand anything except temptation” or “I have no bad habits, but I’m open to suggestions” are commonly tossed around.

Temptation is a human thing, and so Jesus, being fully human as well as fully divine, had to undergo temptation. We would hope this means, among other things, that Jesus knows how hard it is for us to stand against temptation. But the temptations Jesus faced might have been just a little bit bigger than the ones we often face—even bigger than, perhaps, the temptation to sacrifice our principles to keep a job that we need so we and our family can have a roof over our heads.

In the wilderness, Jesus faced questions of how he would live out the identity that was confirmed by the heavenly voice at his baptism. “This is my Son, the Beloved; in him I am well pleased,” God said as Jesus came up out of the Jordan.

And the devil’s first statement was, “Well, if you are the Son of God…” (Actually, in Greek that if probably means something more like “since,” so the devil is saying, this is something that you ought to be entitled to as God’s Son.)

Okay, Son of God, you know that you don’t have to be hungry like other mere mortals get hungry, especially as they wander in the desert. So why don’t you turn a stone into bread and spare yourself that unpleasantness? After all, you’re the Son of God, and you can.

And Jesus comes back with a response: “One does not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” He is quoting from the book of Deuteronomy, in which the people of Israel are being reminded of how God took them out of slavery and into the barren wilderness, where they could not grow or gather food for themselves; and God fed them every day with manna.

We need to know that original story—how the people discovered that the wilderness wasn’t all going to be like the splendid oasis where they spent their first few days of freedom, and they complained, and tried to get Moses to lead them back to Egypt, where they might have been slaves, but at least they had food. And we need to understand Deuteronomy’s interpretation of that event, which is that God led them into that hungry place so they could learn to depend on the word of God to sustain them. If we understand those two things, Jesus’ response to this test makes a little bit more sense.

Matthew wants us to recognize that Jesus passed this test his ancestors had struggled with. But was it really this easy?

In all three three temptations, Jesus just turns and says, “It is written,” and then quotes from the book of Deuteronomy, each time referring to an incident from his ancestors’ time in the wilderness when they faced a decision about how they were going to be God’s people.

The first one was, as I just mentioned, about the giving of the manna. In the second case, Jesus is tempted to throw himself off the top of the temple, to prove that God would rescue him. In his response he quotes again from Deuteronomy, but leaves one phrase out. Deuteronomy 6:16 says, “Do not put the LORD your God to the test, as you tested him at Massah.” Massah was the place where the Israelites, apparently, first realized that there’s not a lot of water to be had in the desert. True to form, they complained; but this time their complaint wasn’t just a gauzy-eyed remembrance of how in Egypt they had water to drink. This time it was about theology: Is the LORD among us, or not? If he is, then he can prove it by giving us water.

Jesus said, no, I am not going to ask God to prove himself. Putting God to the test is a sign that we don’t believe God can be trusted.

The third test is the one that Israel failed not just in the wilderness, but over and over and over again until God finally had enough and sent them to Babylon for a time-out. The devil says, “See how much I can give you—reign over all the nations on earth—if you’ll fall down and worship me?” (Of course, the implied rest of the question is, “…instead of God.”)

Tomorrow we have a federal holiday in honor of The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., who led a struggle against racial segregation and the ongoing violence that people of color faced—and still face—as they try to make their way through life. Imagine how Jesus taking over political power could have changed that! Would there have even been racism and segregation for Dr. King to fight against? Or could he just have had a quiet life as a husband, father, and pastor?

But Jesus said no, because it was too high a price to pay—and political power comes with a host of compromises and unintended consequences that could well have taken him so far from God’s will that he couldn’t find his way back. And he quoted again from Deuteronomy, a commandment that is repeated in one way or another throughout the Torah, including in the Ten Commandments: “Worship the LORD your God, and serve only him.”

But the way Matthew (and Luke, in his turn) describe this whole episode, Jesus doesn’t even break a sweat, doesn’t even furrow his brow, doesn’t have any trouble at all slapping down the devil’s temptations. Was it really that easy? Jesus may have been the Son of God, may have been God incarnate, but he was God incarnate as a human being; and withstanding temptation is actually pretty difficult for us human beings. Was it really that easy for him?

Well, I don’t know. What I do know is that the whole episode is laid out here in Matthew to show that the temptations Jesus’ ancestors couldn’t withstand in the wilderness didn’t faze him a bit. Because of that, actually, because Jesus swatted them away like little more than an annoying housefly, we see once again that Jesus fulfills Torah, fulfills the whole of God’s Law in a way that God’s people could not do on their own, even in more than a thousand years of trying.

Dealing with temptation is very hard for us humans. It evidently wasn’t all that hard for Jesus—and these were big temptations, well beyond the temptation to toss a box of Little Debbie cakes in our grocery cart if we shop hungry.

Do you suppose, maybe, that as we study and become more familiar with Scripture—for it was with Scripture that Jesus fended off the devil’s temptations—and as we grow closer in our relationship to Jesus, withstanding the most important temptations might get a little easier for us, too?

It has to be worth a try.

Sermon for Sunday 1-11-2015

January 11, 2015
Need It Or Not
Matthew 3:-17

I think it’s safe to say that if John the Baptist were to show up at one of our church potlucks, his covered dish would remain on the table untouched.

Most of us have been to potlucks where the choice of dishes was a bit unvaried—I even heard once of someone going to a potluck and finding that almost every dish anyone brought was some kind of baked beans. (That’s why they call it “potluck,” actually: you bring your covered dish, and you take your chances what others will bring. Most of us won’t suffer permanent harm if one meal out of the day, or the week, turns out to be all escalloped potatoes or all meatloaf, or all baked beans.) I think, though, that most of us would rather encounter a potluck table loaded down with twenty different kinds of meatloaf than even one pan of grasshoppers seasoned with honey.

John needs to vary his diet a bit.

Well, except that a varied, balanced, or delicious diet isn’t exactly what John’s about. John the Baptist is an ascetic—a person who chooses to deny himself the basic pleasures of life, with the hope that such denial will remove distractions and enable him to focus on his relationship with God. He ate bugs and honey. He lived in the desert. He wore a hair shirt.

Not every person of faith is called to asceticism. But some are, and John the Baptist was one of those.

And John said what he thought—and it wasn’t entirely pleasant. But yet people flocked to him.

To be fair, the upper-class folks and religious leaders may not have been out there for altogether positive reasons. But they were out there, among a group of pretty diverse folks from all kinds of backgrounds. Whether they got in the line to be baptized, it doesn’t really say. Maybe they were thoroughly offended by the scolding John gave them and went home in a huff. Or maybe a few of them truly heard John, and recognized their need to repent, and then to bear fruit that demonstrated their repentance meant something. We don’t really know, and actually the whole narration about John’s preaching, his lifestyle, his ministry of baptism in the Jordan, a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of skins, is setting the scene for something else.

That “something else” is introduced by John himself. “One who is more powerful than I is coming after me.” And then, in the very next paragraph, he shows up, in the line for baptism.

This is one of those places where we remember how important it is not to read details from one Gospel into another. One of the commentaries I read this week said something about Jesus coming to the Jordan so his cousin John could baptize him. But Matthew does not say anything about John and Jesus being related. Only Luke does that. And when we get to Mark’s or Luke’s version of this event, we’ll notice that neither of them says anything about John objecting to Jesus coming to him for baptism. Only Matthew does that.

All four Gospels tell of the Spirit descending like a dove when Jesus was baptized, but the words from heaven that are reported in Matthew, Mark, and Luke are directed to a different audience in Matthew than in Mark and Luke. In Mark and Luke the bystanders overhear the heavenly voice (which we may assume is God’s) speaking to Jesus: “You are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well pleased.” But Matthew has the proclamation made not to Jesus but to the bystanders: “This is my Son, the Beloved, with whom I am well pleased.” I don’t know if Matthew assumes Jesus already knows this, but everyone else needs to hear it, or what.

In either case, we’re meant to hear echoes of a couple of Old Testament texts in these words. First, from Genesis 22, where Abraham is commanded to take his son, his only son, whom he loves, and sacrifice him on Mt. Moriah. Also, we’re meant to hear the start of the absolutely gut-wrenching 11th chapter of Hosea (another phrase from which Matthew has already quoted in his second chapter, “Out of Egypt I called my son”): “When Israel was a child, I loved him…” I suspect we’re supposed to remember, if we know that chapter, that Israel was a rebellious child, an unfaithful spouse, and God’s heart was broken by their sin. And we’re likely supposed to draw a contrast between Israel’s rebellion and Jesus’ obedience, even to the point of death, as Paul says in Philippians 2.

These details are interesting, but there’s another question that is more pressing. Christian theology, pretty much from the beginning, has said Jesus was without sin. He may have been tempted in every way that a human might be tempted, but he never gave in to sin. So why would he go to the Jordan River to submit to a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sin? He didn’t need it.

John seems to recognize this, and at first tries to stop Jesus from coming forward for baptism. But Jesus says, “Allow it for now, because this is the way for us to fulfill all righteousness.” But what on earth does that mean?

It goes straight to the heart, as it turns out, of who Jesus was and why he came to live among us.
Remember that in the second chapter of Matthew, which we looked at last week, Persian astrologers showed up in Bethlehem to pay homage to a new King of the Jews. They offered the child Jesus gifts that indicated they recognized he was both a king and a priest. (The third gift, myrrh, was an embalming spice, and it symbolized the reality that Jesus was going to die—as, of course, we all do; but this gift being part of the offering from the Magi when Jesus was a child indicates that his death was as important for the early church as was his status as king and as mediator between God and God’s people.) As soon as they exit off the stage, atrocities ordered by Herod have forced the Holy Family to become refugees, while all the other babies and toddlers in and around Bethlehem are slaughtered.

Then here comes John the Baptist announcing that the Kingdom of God is at hand.

The previous chapter certainly makes clear why we need for the Kingdom of God—which John and Jesus and their fellow Jews would have understood as the messianic age, the time when all of God’s commandments and God’s will would be fulfilled and all of creation would be redeemed and set free from the forces and consequences of sin. John urged his followers to repent—that is, to make a literal turn in their lives toward a path that would put them in the way of the Kingdom when it arrived. When Jesus finally begins his own ministry, he does so with the same message John had been preaching.

But why baptism? Why does Jesus say that his being baptized by John was necessary “to fulfill all righteousness”? Certainly he doesn’t need a baptism of repentance and forgiveness, for he has no sin and thus has nothing of which he needs to repent or for which he needs to be forgiven. Yet he is determined to get in that water, that water which has symbolically washed all the sins off so many people as John has poured it over them. Why? How does this fulfill all righteousness?

I guess first we need to consider what Jesus and his fellow first-century Jews would have understood righteousness to mean. Remember that in the first chapter of Matthew Jesus’ father Joseph is described as “a righteous man.” What was meant by that was that he diligently studied and obeyed all the commandments of his God. And in Joseph’s case there was also a higher righteousness, to which Jesus would later call his followers. Joseph went beyond the letter of the Law, and listened to the voice of God’s messenger even when that voice appeared to contradict what he understood the Law commanding him to do. This is part of what Jesus was seeking to do as he submitted himself to John’s baptism, even though he did not technically need it. But why?

For one thing, fulfilling all righteousness was a messianic act. Later in Matthew Jesus will say that he came not to abolish but to fulfill the law. The total fulfillment of every bit of Torah, especially in one person, was something Jesus’ contemporaries would have associated with the coming of the Messiah. Matthew wants us to know, both here and later in his Gospel, that Jesus is the Messiah for which his people had been waiting, and one bit of evidence for that is his fulfillment of all righteousness.

When Jesus comes to John for baptism, he is submitting himself in obedience to God’s will. That complete, perhaps even radical, obedience is what Jesus came here for, if we are to understand him as the Messiah.

But again, why is it God’s will that Jesus submit to a baptism he doesn’t actually need? The answer to this question cuts to the heart of both the Incarnation and the Atonement, two critical bits of our Christology, our understanding of who Jesus was and what he did in his life and his death.

My sister’s Christmas gifts to all of us this year indicated that for her this was the year of the snarky t-shirt. Mine has this message on it: “I can explain it to you, but I can’t understand it for you.” (Of course I don’t mean to disparage your intelligence by quoting it.)

I could stand up here and try to explain Incarnation and Atonement until I’m blue in the face, quoting Augustine and Thomas Aquinas, Anselm and Karl Barth, but I honestly don’t think all the words I could string together could make any of it make sense as well as telling a story might. (An awful lot of theology is like that, it turns out; it’s better understood through art, story, poetry, and music than through lectures and dusty books full of propositions and Scripture citations.)

Once upon a time, and it really was this way for a very long time, even in this country up until relatively recently, people didn’t have running water in their homes, and long, hot, soaking baths were a luxury. I remember one of Garth Williams’ illustrations in Laura Ingalls Wilder’s books being about this. Bathing in Laura’s home was a Saturday night ritual. Water would be carried in (in some cases, since they lived in the upper Midwest, it was ice or snow that was carried in) and heated on the stove. Then that water would be poured into a tub, and the family would, one by one, get in and wash. Pa took the first turn, then Ma, then the children, beginning with the oldest. You can imagine what the water looked like after the whole family had used it.

The proverb “Don’t throw out the baby with the bathwater” comes from the notion that by the time the baby of a family was bathed, the water was so dirty that that baby might be missed completely in the tub. Whether that actually ever happened I don’t know, though. But a week’s worth of an entire family’s accumulated sweat and grime had to be taken out and dumped.

And once upon a time, so I’ve heard, a woman adopted a dog from the pound. The poor thing had been abused by his previous owner, and he was terrified of water. But if you have ever had a dog, you know that they get dirty, and they get smelly, and they have to be bathed. She would do her best not to bathe the dog until he really needed it, and when she did, he would squirm and whimper and shake.

One day he was particularly muddy and stinky, and he had to have a bath. She put him in the tub, and he was, as usual, very frightened. Then, suddenly, she knew what she had to do to get him over this fear, and get him clean.

She got right in the tub with him, sat right down in the muddy water, and held him in her arms, stroking him and gently talking to him. Eventually, the dog relaxed enough that she could wash him; but it only happened because she was willing to get into the dirty water with him.

When Jesus went to the Jordan and submitted to John’s baptism, he got into water that was, symbolically, polluted by the sin that water had washed away from all who’d been in it before him. When John poured that water over Jesus’ head, in a way he became covered with our sin…which he carried up out of the Jordan to the cross, and which was put to death with him.

Sermon for Sunday 1-4-2015

January 4, 2015
Survivor’s Guilt
Matthew 2:1-23

I can’t have been asleep more than an hour or so when he shook me awake. “Mary, get up. We have to go.”

“Go where?” I asked him.

“We just have to go!” he replied. “Don’t ask questions; there isn’t time. I’ll explain when we’re on the road.” I could see the fear in his eyes, so I didn’t ask any more, just threw a few things for the baby in the center of a blanket, rolled it up, and tied it with a scrap of fabric from my sewing basket.

Honestly, as the cobwebs cleared out of my head, I knew I wouldn’t really have to ask. All of us in Bethlehem had been on edge from the moment those Persian stargazers came to town. No one had ever seen anything like them, with their exotic clothing and their charts of the night sky, which they consulted frequently and exclaimed over in their foreign tongue. Then they knocked on our door and dropped to their knees in front of our little boy, and gave him gifts that were more expensive than anyone in Bethlehem had ever seen, and we were shocked.

It was when they told the story of how they’d stopped to ask directions at King Herod’s palace that we knew something horrible was about to happen. We lived close enough to Jerusalem to have heard plenty of stories about Herod over the years. We knew how he’d executed his sons and even his beloved wife, out of fear that they would take his throne away from him. There was even a saying: “It would be better to be Herod’s pig than Herod’s son.” That was because Herod, who was himself a foreigner, made a show of keeping the Jewish laws about what we did and did not eat (and pork is one thing we don’t eat), while at the same time murdering any person he thought might stand in his way.

In the last few months, dark rumors had come from Jerusalem. Herod, who had always been capricious and cruel, was ill with some kind of disease that was affecting his mind, making him even more paranoid and even more violent than he’d been before. And the Magi, those Persian stargazers, had stopped to ask Herod’s household about the new King of the Jews! Naturally everyone at the palace and everyone in Jerusalem was terrified about what Herod might do next; and that fear rippled out to us in Bethlehem.

I really wasn’t all that surprised when Joseph woke me up and said we needed to leave, right now. As we headed out the door, Joseph stopped and picked up the little chest where we’d put the gifts the Magi had brought us. They weren’t very practical gifts to bring a baby, but they were symbols of what the Magi thought Jesus would be—a king and a priest—except for the myrrh, which is actually an embalming spice. But it took several days to get from Bethlehem to Alexandria, where we knew there were fellow Jews who would help us, and Joseph was able to use the gold and sell the other things, to provide food and shelter along the way.

We had been on the road for a couple days when the news reached us about what had happened after we left Bethlehem. I fell to my knees, right there on the road, when I heard. Every single baby and toddler in Bethlehem—every single one!—slaughtered by Herod’s soldiers, trying to do away with the one the Magi had come seeking, a new king who would restore David’s throne. Trying to do away with my little boy!

I couldn’t breathe as I thought of all the mothers of Bethlehem, frantically trying to hide terrified children, singing them desperate lullabies—“lullay, thou little tiny child…” —to try to get them quiet so they might not be found. Those babies would have been Jesus’ playmates, classmates, friends—as their mothers were my friends; we met every day at the well and at the market, watched each other’s children, shared ideas for how to deal with colic or the best way to get swaddling clothes clean. I couldn’t bear it…couldn’t bear the thought that they all cried for their lost children when I still had mine, because an angel of God had come to Joseph in a dream to warn him.
Why didn’t that angel go to the rest of Bethlehem? Didn’t God love those children, too?

Joseph tried to comfort me, but I wouldn’t be comforted, just like Rachel in Jeremiah’s prophecy. It just didn’t seem right to be grateful that our child was alive, without remembering all those who weren’t.

Jesus had been napping when the rider told us the news, but he woke up soon after. “Mama, why you cry?” he asked in his baby voice. I thanked God he was too little to understand, and I held him tight as Joseph urged me to get up so we could keep moving. We weren’t yet far enough from Jerusalem that we were entirely safe. So we got up and trudged on.

Contrary to the pictures, we were on foot; we couldn’t afford a donkey before, and Joseph thought it might attract unwanted attention if we were to use the fancy Persian gold to buy one, at least while we were still in Judea.

When we finally made it to Alexandria, we found the synagogue and the rabbi and his wife helped us find a place to stay. We were lucky because there was a good-sized Jewish community there, people who looked like us, and sounded like us, and believed in the same God we did. Not all refugees have that option when they have to leave their homes because of war, or disaster, or disease. But I knew the stories of our people, so I couldn’t help but notice the irony that we, people who were shaped by God bringing us out of Egypt, found safety in Egypt.

We lived there in Alexandria for a couple of years. Joseph found another builder and went to work with him. I got to know the women there and made some new friends. And Jesus began to learn the Torah with the other little boys there. We were still poor, but we got by, even managed to buy a cow and a donkey.

Then, one day, as we finished our evening prayers and tucked our son into bed, Joseph said, “A messenger came by today.”

The messenger had the news that old Herod had finally died, and a son who’d managed to escape his paranoid wrath had taken his place on the throne in Jerusalem. So Joseph asked me, “How would you feel about going home?”

He said that the night before he’d had a dream in which the same angel who’d told him to get us out of Bethlehem came and said it was safe to return; and then the next day the messenger came with the news that Herod was dead.

This time we had time to plan, time to save up, time to pack and sell the cow and our house and have a rummage sale. We had time to say good-by to our friends and promise to write. And there would be no rider on the road with the news that our friends’ children had all been slaughtered in the king’s murderous rage.

“Mama, where are we going?” Jesus asked as we closed the door of our house in Alexandria for the last time.

“We’re going home,” I told him; but he didn’t understand.

“This is home,” he said.

“Yes, it’s been home for us; but we came here from somewhere else, and we’re going back there.”

“Why?”

I couldn’t give him an answer for that; Joseph and I had decided we wouldn’t tell him about our journey from Bethlehem to Egypt until he was quite a bit older.

But it wasn’t very long before he started to have bad dreams. In the dreams he said he was running, and he heard me crying, but he didn’t know how to make me feel better. “What does it mean?” he asked me.
I had thought he was too little to remember any of it, but somehow, he had—but they were confusing memories and he couldn’t make any sense of them. So Joseph and I sat him down and told him the story.

“But Mama, Papa, why didn’t the angel help all those other babies? Why did they die?” And that night our compassionate, sensitive little boy cried himself to sleep.

From that time on, no matter what he was doing, the realization that he was saved while others weren’t never left his mind. As he worked with his father in the shop, he asked questions about how Joseph knew where to go, how he knew the angel who told them to leave Bethlehem was from God. He and I talked more about how it felt to be afraid and on the run, and to have to make our home among strangers—we had to do it twice, for we never did go back to Bethlehem, because the angel came to Joseph again once we were on the road to tell us that Herod’s son was even worse than Herod had been. As he studied his Torah he realized that God expects us to care for refugees and others in need, and also to stand up to people like Herod, who used their power to hurt others.

I could see that these stories made Jesus even more determined to love and help people, and to teach others to do the same. But it took him a long time to understand that there was something God had for him to do, which no one else could do. Others could heal the sick and love the unlovable; others could welcome the stranger and feed the hungry; and he urged those who came to follow him to do these things. But there was no one else on earth who could take away the sin of the world, who could finally go to a cross and, by dying there, give all of us a new life.

Friday Five: Christmas Soon!

(Weekly feature on revgalblogpals… http://revgalblogpals.org/2014/12/19/friday-five-christmas-soon/)

The assignment for this week is five things about the Christmas season, whether they be memories, plans, wishes, whatever.

1. We don’t have to get up at the crack of dawn to drive to my family’s Christmas celebration this year. Usually we do that because it’s a seven-hour drive and we want to be there in time for dinner, which is served midafternoon. This year Christmas dinner won’t be till Saturday, so we can take our time. We’ll still go on Christmas Day, though, to get ahead of some potential bad weather.

2. A worry I have right now is whether we’ll both be able to go, or if Mike will have to stay home to supervise the work that is ongoing in our kitchen. Quite honestly, given his current issues with insomnia, it might be better for all concerned if he stays home. So I don’t know. I hate to leave him alone on Christmas, but I’m not sure he’s as bothered by it as I would be.

3. A “White Christmas” is a darned nuisance.

4. A few days ago my aunt Sue sent out an e-mail to all of us about the Christmas dinner plans. The last sentence of the message was directed just to my parents, about the trash they’d be bringing over to put in her dumpster for pickup the next day (she lives alone and never fills it; they live outside the city limits and don’t have garbage service). In replies everybody got to talking about their trash and when they thought they might bring it up. I missed it entirely. Sailed right over my head.

5. I’m grateful for talented and creative church folks who are putting together a special service for the Sunday after Christmas so I can take a vacation.